Sunday, June 29, 2008

A few days in Paradise

It is a new universe for us – this western wilderness. Leigh, Bisbee and I have begun exploring it. Its nature is breathtaking and its frontier history alive in people we meet and in structures we see dotting the expansive landscape.

We journeyed this week through Portal and Paradise (two silver mining towns on the east side of the Chiricahua Mountains). No cell phone, no TV – just time for contemplating the birds, the local history and the magnificent Chiricahuas. From here we took a dirt road to a tiny town called Rodeo. Off historic Highway 80, Rodeo is a one-street town with friendly ranchers and interesting sky gypsies (more on that in a later post). It is where all around you are miles of endless desert scrub ending in a horizon of towering mountain ranges.

After Rodeo we traveled through the Gila mountains, past the Continental Divide and onto Silver City. The USA’s frontier history is felt strongly in the bones of old buildings in this funky downtown. Galleries, bookstores, eateries and junk shops splash color and personality across its artsy streets.

Monsoons were abundant this trip. Most afternoons the winds churned up dust storms that barreled across roads and buffeted our car. The winds were a prelude to huge thunderheads which would pop above the mountains. At night we (even Bisbee!) were soothed by the rumbles of the storm and the rain.

So this was a glorious little trip. Every day we found a new reason to be amazed, entertained or humbled. Every day a powerful silence seemed to envelope us and mesh us with the environment. Poet Laura Girardeau calls it “…a world without word, only scent and beauty.” I am so glad we are starting to travel around this wild, western world, and learning to appreciate its wonder.

Tuesday, June 24, 2008

Remembering Jessica the Fabulous

Fred called tonight to remind us that it was Jessica’s birthday. Would she have been 36 today? I can't remember. All I can remember is a fabulously-alive young woman, into her career, her clothes, her bunnies and her family (not in that order). She who so loved life was taken way too soon.

Jessica had a degenerative heart condition. She tried so many things and finally made the decision to get a heart transplant. She went into the hospital with great optimism. Sadly, the hospital let her down. The operation had complications. There was a massive infection and Jessica's new heart just could not get her through it. She died August 2005.

It’s important for her family to focus on those wonderful and precious times we were privileged to share with Jessica. I for one enjoyed our dinners, our thrift store finds, the books she gave and her advice regarding fashion. Jessica always was a wonderful cousin to Brett. Whenever there was a school performance, she would be there for him.

In my kitchen sits a small jar. It’s filled with a strange mix of dried lemons, orange rinds and spices. It’s the remnants of a special gift from Jessica. The Christmas before she left us she had come to our house, loaded down with boxes and jars full of goodies she had made. She had baked zucchini bread, prepared scented olive oil, dried potpourri and made candies. That day at our house she was beaming – so proud of all the wondrous foods she had made. We almost got sick eating all the fudge and candied fruits. It was a wonderful, wonderful Christmas gift.

We’ll always keep that jar, brimming with a nice fragrance that will always bring to mind happy times and family love. Hey, Jessica! I still have your Tarot cards! And your lamp and your dictionary! We love you Jessica. We will keep you in our hearts forever.

Monday, June 23, 2008

Six-Word Memoir Title - I've Been Tagged!

I was tagged by my friend Julie to create a 6-word title for my memoir.
I'm new to this tagging...but here are the rules:
1. Write the title to your own memoir using 6 words.
2. Post it on your blog.
3. Link to the person who tagged you.
4. Tag 5 more blogs.

So here is my title: From Brooklyn to Tucson- A Cowgirl's Tale

Now it's time to tag 5 more blogs.

(Holy spam, am I participating in a blogger's form of chain letter? Forgive me if I am.)
I tagged these blogs:
Michelle
Leigh
James
Stephen
Jennifer
And maybe I'll use this pix on my book cover!

Sunday, June 22, 2008

Lessons Learned from a Crafty Mermaid

Don't get excited -- This isn't a provocative post. Just some thoughts on my little mermaid ornament, handmade in Santa Fe. Peggy - the Queen of Tucson Quilting- gave Ms. Mermaid to me Friday night, during a fun dinner with friends, wine, polenta and chocolate.

From her neatly-sewn turquoise fabric fins and finely-threaded eyes down to her very impressive upper torso, I love Ms. Mermaid. She dangles from my desk lamp pull-chain and smiles as I work. Beyond her form and color I am taken with what she seems to be telling me. So let me share her message with you:
  • Be daring in your quest for life. If you hide behind the covers you'll never see the sunshine.

  • When you're out there on your own, completely vulnerable to the world, remember to smile even though you're half-naked.

  • And if you meet up with someone with their b____ hanging out, don't get distracted. People may hide behind flamboyant exteriors, often just out of insecurity.

  • When you're comfortably stuck in shades of black, treat yourself to a wild palette of orange and turquoise. Discover the benefits of new, crazy combinations.

  • The smallest objects contain amazing messages. Take the time to study details in the big picture.

  • Humor is an essential ingredient. We can't take ourselves too seriously all of the time.

That's my philosophy for the day. Thanks to Peggy for friendship. For the gift of unexpected humor. And for such a crafty, colorful, endowed mermaid!


Tuesday, June 17, 2008

This Stick Transforms Into Queen of the Night

Now that I'm a Tucsonan I know all about Queen of the Night. Great native american legends surround the mystery of Peniocereus greggii, the Sonoran Desert native cactus that resembles a dead stick most of the year. But on one night (nature's heat and monsoons to determine exact date), a bloom on this stick turns into a white, fragrant flower. This trumpet-shaped flower attracts sphinx moths for pollination -- and for one night a year we get a show of a lifetime. It is awesome, like none other.

We purchased our little stick from a native cactus nursery nearby, and planted it under our beautiful palo verde in front. We take care of the stick, talk to it and now our little plant has rewarded us with several buds. Great excitement as we await the coming of Queen of the Night!

I'll keep watch (as will Leigh) and will post additional photos of the bloom's progress. Monsoons are coming, so stay tuned for new photos. When I worked at Tohono Chul Park, Russ Buhrow told me the beautiful story about the Queen of the Night legend. I'll try to recount the legend on my blog in a later post.

Sunday, June 8, 2008

It's raw, beautiful outsider art

Entry to the Museum of Modern Art is a small fortune nowadays, but I willingly lay out the bills when I travel to New York. My goal this trip was to see "Glossolalia," an amazing outside-the-boundaries show about outsider art. I look at the fantastic drawings and ramblings of these artists (some institutionalized and some just wacky) and wonder....what universe is real? Such magnificent, intricate beauty created by individuals labeled as crazy. Sometimes I prefer their world.

Walked everywhere in Manhattan during this trip. 40-plus blocks to Union Square. Then a sojourn to the west side Apple store. Another day's browse through the Garment District. And a final trip 40 more blocks uptown, for a pilgrimage to my favorite -- the Tender Buttons store.

Yes, I love New York. But on the flight back, when we circled those Catalinas, a dusty little Tucson seemed to say, "welcome home." Funny, but I didn't seem to mind that I had left MOMA and that ever-fabulous New York City behind. Enjoy my museum pix of Leigh and the outsider show!